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	<title>Comments on: Relative Values: From The Times Online, December 8, 2002</title>
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		<title>By: DAVID DAVENPORT</title>
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		<dc:creator>DAVID DAVENPORT</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Sat, 26 Apr 2008 15:37:42 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>&lt;p&gt;I like the picture of Tom &#38; Mark and the story. Like to see mark getting the tour dates and places were Tom will be performing.  Tom's true honest fan from Southern California. Tom rock us in America!&lt;/p&gt;
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		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>I like the picture of Tom &amp; Mark and the story. Like to see mark getting the tour dates and places were Tom will be performing.  Tom&#8217;s true honest fan from Southern California. Tom rock us in America!</p>]]></content:encoded>
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		<title>By: Moderator</title>
		<link>http://tomjonesinternational.com/2008/04/24/relative-values-from-the-times-online-december-8-2002/#comment-5187</link>
		<dc:creator>Moderator</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Sat, 26 Apr 2008 15:07:00 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>&lt;p&gt;The time zones in the USA meant we were still sleeping when Beverly posted her comment. We debated about removing it, but we get many negative comments about the kind of person Tom is behind his stage persona and we never post them because they are so nasty. But, since this was already up, we thought we'd respond. Our response is simple and in two parts:&lt;/p&gt;

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&lt;li&gt;&lt;p&gt;One cannot judge anyone's private feelings, whether the person being judged is a next-door neighbor or Tom Jones. Tom's public actions have never given anyone any indication that he is selfish. This business about the US about which we and many fans have expressed frustration has nothing to do with any lack of loyalty or selfishness on Tom's part. We're sure long-time fans can catalog the good this man has done for charity, both publicly and privately. Ego? Rightfully so. But "selfish," no.&lt;/p&gt;&lt;/li&gt;
&lt;li&gt;&lt;p&gt;As we mentioned above, we get many posts to be moderated that clearly attack Tom. They never see the light of day because they are so mean-spirited and angry. We only can assume that these are written by people who may call themselves fans, but who are angry, jealous, or both, because some of them are appalling. We own the site and reserve the right to insist on certain standards.
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Many of these vicious comments, we've found out, are sent using fake email addresses. We know the senders tend to work in IT and have the skills to send these from fake addresses. We even know where some of them originate. We keep these off the site because, as we've said many times before, there's a difference between honest constructive criticism given by someone who cares and the tremendous anger some people apparently feel about Tom (and, clearly, other celebrities are in the same boat). It is kind of scary. And when we think of fan incidents like what happened in AC last year, we're grateful that Tom emerges unscathed. We just never understood the kind of anger or possessiveness that these alleged "fans" feel.&lt;/p&gt;&lt;/li&gt;
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		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>The time zones in the USA meant we were still sleeping when Beverly posted her comment. We debated about removing it, but we get many negative comments about the kind of person Tom is behind his stage persona and we never post them because they are so nasty. But, since this was already up, we thought we&#8217;d respond. Our response is simple and in two parts:</p>

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<li><p>One cannot judge anyone&#8217;s private feelings, whether the person being judged is a next-door neighbor or Tom Jones. Tom&#8217;s public actions have never given anyone any indication that he is selfish. This business about the US about which we and many fans have expressed frustration has nothing to do with any lack of loyalty or selfishness on Tom&#8217;s part. We&#8217;re sure long-time fans can catalog the good this man has done for charity, both publicly and privately. Ego? Rightfully so. But &#8220;selfish,&#8221; no.</p></li>
<li><p>As we mentioned above, we get many posts to be moderated that clearly attack Tom. They never see the light of day because they are so mean-spirited and angry. We only can assume that these are written by people who may call themselves fans, but who are angry, jealous, or both, because some of them are appalling. We own the site and reserve the right to insist on certain standards.
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Many of these vicious comments, we&#8217;ve found out, are sent using fake email addresses. We know the senders tend to work in IT and have the skills to send these from fake addresses. We even know where some of them originate. We keep these off the site because, as we&#8217;ve said many times before, there&#8217;s a difference between honest constructive criticism given by someone who cares and the tremendous anger some people apparently feel about Tom (and, clearly, other celebrities are in the same boat). It is kind of scary. And when we think of fan incidents like what happened in AC last year, we&#8217;re grateful that Tom emerges unscathed. We just never understood the kind of anger or possessiveness that these alleged &#8220;fans&#8221; feel.</p></li>
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		<title>By: BeBe</title>
		<link>http://tomjonesinternational.com/2008/04/24/relative-values-from-the-times-online-december-8-2002/#comment-5184</link>
		<dc:creator>BeBe</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Sat, 26 Apr 2008 14:45:53 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>&lt;p&gt;I enjoyed reading this article - thanks for posting! quote: "I couldn't say: Would you book my daddy?" How cute is that?? made me laugh :) - Well and about "hanging his hat" - I don't know but when you are on the road so much and for such a long time like TOM I guess your home is wherever you hang your hat. And he lives in Southern California for a long time — longer then he did in Wales, right?&lt;/p&gt;
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		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>I enjoyed reading this article - thanks for posting! quote: &#8220;I couldn&#8217;t say: Would you book my daddy?&#8221; How cute is that?? made me laugh <img src='http://tomjonesinternational.com/wp-includes/images/smilies/icon_smile.gif' alt=':)' class='wp-smiley' /> - Well and about &#8220;hanging his hat&#8221; - I don&#8217;t know but when you are on the road so much and for such a long time like TOM I guess your home is wherever you hang your hat. And he lives in Southern California for a long time — longer then he did in Wales, right?</p>]]></content:encoded>
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		<title>By: pat lowndes</title>
		<link>http://tomjonesinternational.com/2008/04/24/relative-values-from-the-times-online-december-8-2002/#comment-5183</link>
		<dc:creator>pat lowndes</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Sat, 26 Apr 2008 13:51:04 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>&lt;p&gt;Nice to read about Tom and Marks relationship maybe as there is only 17 years between them it makes things easier .I think the remark about where you hang your hat could mean Tom just loves to sing and will sing for as long as he can where ever he is.&lt;/p&gt;
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		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>Nice to read about Tom and Marks relationship maybe as there is only 17 years between them it makes things easier .I think the remark about where you hang your hat could mean Tom just loves to sing and will sing for as long as he can where ever he is.</p>]]></content:encoded>
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		<title>By: beverly</title>
		<link>http://tomjonesinternational.com/2008/04/24/relative-values-from-the-times-online-december-8-2002/#comment-5182</link>
		<dc:creator>beverly</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Sat, 26 Apr 2008 13:42:58 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>&lt;p&gt;Tom has always given me the impression he basically just cares about himself.  I don't doubt he loves his son.  To me he has always come across as selfish. So really don't expect any loyalty i'm afraid.&lt;/p&gt;
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		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>Tom has always given me the impression he basically just cares about himself.  I don&#8217;t doubt he loves his son.  To me he has always come across as selfish. So really don&#8217;t expect any loyalty i&#8217;m afraid.</p>]]></content:encoded>
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		<title>By: Moderator</title>
		<link>http://tomjonesinternational.com/2008/04/24/relative-values-from-the-times-online-december-8-2002/#comment-5176</link>
		<dc:creator>Moderator</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Fri, 25 Apr 2008 19:33:21 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>&lt;p&gt;We just have to add a comment about what Mary (#6 above) said. We don't think anyone here in the USA cares if Tom ever becomes an American citizen. It's the dismissive attitude people here care about. Of course, citizenship is a very personal decision and one naturally feels an affinity to one's birthplace. No one is quibbling about that. It's just — &lt;em&gt;please!!&lt;/em&gt; — a nice word about living here would be appreciated.(And we really do believe Tom does enjoy his SoCal lifestyle. Otherwise, he does have the means to move.)&lt;/p&gt;
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		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>We just have to add a comment about what Mary (#6 above) said. We don&#8217;t think anyone here in the USA cares if Tom ever becomes an American citizen. It&#8217;s the dismissive attitude people here care about. Of course, citizenship is a very personal decision and one naturally feels an affinity to one&#8217;s birthplace. No one is quibbling about that. It&#8217;s just — <em>please!!</em> — a nice word about living here would be appreciated.(And we really do believe Tom does enjoy his SoCal lifestyle. Otherwise, he does have the means to move.)</p>]]></content:encoded>
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		<title>By: Jared</title>
		<link>http://tomjonesinternational.com/2008/04/24/relative-values-from-the-times-online-december-8-2002/#comment-5175</link>
		<dc:creator>Jared</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Fri, 25 Apr 2008 17:30:20 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>&lt;p&gt;This is a very interesting take on their personal life.  I've never heard a story from Mark's point if view.  My favorite part was when Tom said that "We’re not parent and child, we’re friends."&lt;/p&gt;
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		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>This is a very interesting take on their personal life.  I&#8217;ve never heard a story from Mark&#8217;s point if view.  My favorite part was when Tom said that &#8220;We’re not parent and child, we’re friends.&#8221;</p>]]></content:encoded>
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		<title>By: Sandy</title>
		<link>http://tomjonesinternational.com/2008/04/24/relative-values-from-the-times-online-december-8-2002/#comment-5174</link>
		<dc:creator>Sandy</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Fri, 25 Apr 2008 17:15:33 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>&lt;p&gt;Very insightful.  Thank you.&lt;/p&gt;
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		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>Very insightful.  Thank you.</p>]]></content:encoded>
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		<title>By: Mary</title>
		<link>http://tomjonesinternational.com/2008/04/24/relative-values-from-the-times-online-december-8-2002/#comment-5173</link>
		<dc:creator>Mary</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Fri, 25 Apr 2008 15:54:09 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>&lt;p&gt;Very interesting. It's kind of telling that America is a place where he "hangs his hat" and "makes so much money" and then America is dismissed. That's very sad and I'm getting tired of that attitude.  I see other English/Welsh entertainers declare citizenship (Tracy Ullman, Anthony Hopkins) because they make most of their money here.  What do we see Tom doing? Acting like America is a cheap motel room where he "hangs his hat." But doesn't the song say, "anywhere you hang your hat is &lt;em&gt;home?&lt;/em&gt; So what is it? Hat on or hanging up?&lt;/p&gt;

&lt;p&gt;&lt;p&gt;&lt;/p&gt;&lt;p&gt;&lt;/p&gt;&lt;p&gt;Never mind, I'm just crabby because I wanted to buy that lovely poster and help out the women on the website. I know there are expenses. &lt;/p&gt;&lt;/p&gt;
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		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>Very interesting. It&#8217;s kind of telling that America is a place where he &#8220;hangs his hat&#8221; and &#8220;makes so much money&#8221; and then America is dismissed. That&#8217;s very sad and I&#8217;m getting tired of that attitude.  I see other English/Welsh entertainers declare citizenship (Tracy Ullman, Anthony Hopkins) because they make most of their money here.  What do we see Tom doing? Acting like America is a cheap motel room where he &#8220;hangs his hat.&#8221; But doesn&#8217;t the song say, &#8220;anywhere you hang your hat is <em>home?</em> So what is it? Hat on or hanging up?</p>

<p></p><p></p><p></p><p>Never mind, I&#8217;m just crabby because I wanted to buy that lovely poster and help out the women on the website. I know there are expenses. </p>]]></content:encoded>
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		<title>By: Renn</title>
		<link>http://tomjonesinternational.com/2008/04/24/relative-values-from-the-times-online-december-8-2002/#comment-5167</link>
		<dc:creator>Renn</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Fri, 25 Apr 2008 13:38:18 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>&lt;p&gt;Fascinating.  Thanks for a peak into their relationship we'd likely not find anywhere else; I agree with Martine I haven't heard much about Mark and it was very touching.  What a unique relationship the two of them have; a video interview together talking about all of this would be amazing stuff especially if it included some current details about what it's like to keep the tour running and some video of the VEGAS show (behind the scenes and onstage too).&lt;/p&gt;
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		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>Fascinating.  Thanks for a peak into their relationship we&#8217;d likely not find anywhere else; I agree with Martine I haven&#8217;t heard much about Mark and it was very touching.  What a unique relationship the two of them have; a video interview together talking about all of this would be amazing stuff especially if it included some current details about what it&#8217;s like to keep the tour running and some video of the VEGAS show (behind the scenes and onstage too).</p>]]></content:encoded>
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